Tuesday, August 12, 2025

For the Living

For ten months
I have done nothing
but grieve

Figured out how to say
thank you
without crying
and learned how to cry
while still making coffee

I think the 9th
will always hurt my feelings
which is fine 
It is better 
than feeling nothing

Your wake was beautiful
and every day
I am reconciling
how the passing of time
can bring so much relief
but reclaims the clarity
of the recently bereaved

Besides you, 
I don't let myself
miss anything 
from before that night
I can't bring you back to life
I just want it to be okay
that you died

Music is different now

I have forgotten

how to let it fix me

Maybe the sad song

I need to hear

hasn't been covered yet

so I am still listening


I've stopped looking

for signs

that you're still here

It's like begging for water

while drowning


You haven't stopped

showing up in my dreams

My favorite is the one

where you are just sleeping

beside me


I know you are gone,

but don't tell you.

Grieving is for the living